Stay friends with people who are comfortable with your silence
Yes and yes.
Like brittle pieces of broken shells barely put together by sleep, there was nothing to fill her out, nothing to hold her together.
It is so important, as parents of small children, to teach that no means no. It is never okay to touch or hurt someone without their permission. Flirting, “sexy” clothes, drunkenness, etc are not excuses to hurt someone. Even if the person backs out at the last minute, it doesn’t mean it’s okay to continue. Our children are the future and it’s our job to make sure they know boundaries.